Soooo....basically you give in to what he wants and thus are happier.
I mean I see Philososhy of it. But is that really a workable solution for both people. Do you ever worry that you will wake up one day and go, damm, I'm unhappy and I've wasted away my youth. It hurts when I hear stories that Lil tells about never experiencing any more adventurous/passionate/intimate sex. I don't know. Most people on this board are here because they Can't give up on having a fulfilling SL. Aren't you basically saying to give up, to some degree?