Quote: If her H wants to go and has asked to go, that is entirely different. My sense was that he merely "agreed" to go.
Mama, I would urge you to let your H out of this if he grumbles or complains about it at all. If he feels "forced" to go in any way, then you're only pressuring and pursuing. That's not DB at all and it probably won't help -- just cause him to rebel more.
My W was going to joint MC with me and I ended it because it was only making things worse by helping her focus on all the things she disliked about being married to me and how much better the OM was in those areas.
The LORD is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth." (Psalm 145:18)
