So OT, to continue the hijack, are you saying that it's the OWNERSHIP of one's decisions, not necessarily the decisions themselves that is most important? Is that why people here, myself included, often think you are going to react negatively to something we posted, only to have you do the opposite when what we did or said was done of our own free will, and because WE wanted to do/say it? Is it because there are no "right" or "wrong" decisions so long as they are ours, and ours alone?
