Well, I agree with GH. He stated he was willing to talk to a counselor. I am going to run with that right now. I do not feel that I am forcing him. I have to believe that he wants a way out of his unhappiness and he hasn't been able to find it in the bottom of a bottle.
The counselor suggested that he wants to see us together as a couple for the first time to assess our situation and how we communicate our feelings. If there are underlying issues that need to be addressed seperately them he will do that.