I've been lurking around other posts and happend upon one where OT stated she was tired of watching people shoot themselves in the foot and others here responding as cheerleaders.
I'm looking for some fresh advise from someone who has been there before me.
My H and I get along fairly well in all aspects except our M. This I believe is because he is involved with someone else and can't see the forest thru the trees.
We still live together which I feel is an advantage. I have been doing this for 6 months now and although I have read atleast 10 relationship repair books and DR on a daily basis I feel that I am doing it wrong.
My H works with the OW so this is where I get insecure. Recently I feel like we have been getting along a little better but H is still confused.
If you need more info or if you could dispense some of your wisdom on me I would truly appreciate it. Thank you.
