I think in your/our sitch, no news is good news sometimes. I am starting to embrace that as my current challange. I think your line about not asking if things were better between you and H was right on. I should have listened to that little voice inside me that was shouted down by the BIG voice inside me. I should NOT have asked W anything, but it's done, and I don't know if it was good or bad (seems bad). In any event, I think if you are ok with just what you can observe, and NOT read into it too much, then limbo can be bearable. If you NEED to know things, and by knowing I mean you have to have them tell you, then I guess you're screwed because as I found out, until THEY are ready to talk, it ain't happenin'.
