Unfortunately nothing is happening in the bedroom, we sleep in separate rooms. I'm hoping that you are right in the fact that things are ending with them but it is just taking a little time. Yesterday when he came home from work I was sitting on the loveseat reading, he kept sitting next to me (mind you there is also a couch and a chair to sit on), he didn't say much and neither did I. I will NOT bring up our R again, I'm leaving it up to him to make the first move. In the beginning and at a few backsliding moments I tried reasoning, begging, pleading - I will not do that again. If he wants me, he knows where I am and how I feel.
Gotta take the kids to school, will definitely be back later today. Thanks for the advice.