Quote: I don't know what is going on with him and OW and frankly I don't care, we seem to be getting along much, much better.
Perfect attitude. Just be careful. If you're like me, you're able to "detach" like this merely because things kinda went your way for once and even though you KNOW the OW thing could still be looming, you can kinda ignore it for a day or two when it's not in your face. It sets you up for a fall if it comes back in your face. Just be a little even keeled about the good as well as the bad right now.
That said, I am VERY happy for that day you had. It sounds like it was really good, and I don't think you should EVER deny the positives just because there may still be negatives. Sure, it's a risk to put yourself out there, but risks are a part of life.
This kind of day you had is the point of DB, to get to that place where the friendship is rebuilt and a new foundation can be started. You recognize this and I am glad to see you getting to that point!