Again, thank you so much for your wisdom. You are absoulutely right. I do not KNOW anything. I will no longer assume and think the worst. I will make the best of the time we have together and hopefully in the near future he will decide to win back my trust. My H also doesn't communicate very well so if he has decided to work on our relationship it is likely that he wouldn't even tell me, I would see changes through his actions. I will continue to think positive and reread "Surviving Infidelity" to see if I can pick up anything else.
