Ok, had a really nice weekend. I "acted as if", I really, really wanted to ask about the purchase at the Hallmark store but I held my tongue. I bought the book, "Surviving Infedelity" yesterday. I have read it cover to cover. There is not really a section geared towards what to do if your spouse doesn't give up the affair. He says it is over but I have evidence that contradicts that. I am going to try to have a positive mental attitude and not dwell on negative thoughts or feelings. I guess I have chosen to put up with the situation that I am in.
We looked at model homes today (something we used to enjoy in the long ago past) we talked of buying one of these homes but then decided it would cost too much,then went to Home Depot to get some paint and such to make our home nicer. We also discussed getting new carpet. I see this as a baby step. If he didn't want to stay in this relationship, he really wouldn't care what our home looked like, right?
