Actually, I agreed with you more than my post suggested, and PROJECTED a lot of my sitch on Mama, which in hindsight was not helpful. As for me suggesting you're playing games, again, that was probably the wrong way to characterize it. I guess, once again, I was projecting my somewhat unique situation on Mama and you. Sorry. Like you said, we both care and are just trying to help. I think you are making some really valid points.