Ok, I just hung up from my girlfriend, who has been married and divorced 4 times. She thinks I am crazy. I told her about the receipt that I found that confirms my H is still involved in an affair. She says I am a doormat. She feels the only reason my H is still here is because for whatever reason the OW can't get out of her relationship. Or maybe the OW gave my H an ultimatum and because of financial reasons he cannot leave therefore she has cooled things with him (which would explain his not going out as much) and he is desparetely trying to get her back. As a side note, he called earlier to tell me that he is going out for a few beers after work for "march madness" - is that what you call affairs these days LOL.
Anyway, now my girlfriend has made me rethink my position again. I am so wishy washy. On the one hand I really want my marriage to work but do I have so little respect for myself that I am willing to put up with this crap? What if his feelings for me never change? Am I supposed to remain in a platonic relationship "for the kids"? Help
