Hi, you guys have been so helpful to me in the past. I just feel so stuck. I don't want my life to be on hold, waiting for my H to decide that he wants to work on our relationship. I have many times lost hope and patience and asked him to move out. He does not want to, not because of me, but because "he loves his kids" and the fact that he can't afford to move out. I tried to explain to him that love is a decision, if he decided that he really did love me he could act on those feelings and things could improve. But he is not there yet. I try not to dwell on the OW but it is so hard, I HATE her! She has ruined my life! Grasshopper, I know that you too are still living with your wife while she continues an affair. How the heck are you handling it? Or anyone else out there in a similar situation, please advise. Thanks.
