I heard from the C this morning. He said that he was out of town and apologized for not getting back to me. Here’s another snippet from his email:
Quote: Sure, it is easy to understand. W is a bully. When you give in to her, it gives her energy to continue the behavior pattern. When you stand up to her, like all cowards she backs down. When W misbehaves again (and she will) tell her that if she does not like the living arrangements anymore just leave. The truth is she has no where to go and no one that will tolerate her behavior. Thank you for standing up to her.
Most of the remainder of his reply was directed at dealing with the D14 issues. He said that he thinks she would benefit from C, but that he wouldn’t recommend it right now. There was a lot there, but the gist of it was that we all have enough on our plates right now and just getting W under control will help D14 immensely. He does want to see her though. Rest easy Lil, I will get her some help.
