Well…, I wimped out. W didn’t leave and I didn’t toss her out.
I wish I could tell you what happened, but I’m at a complete loss to explain anything. The last convo we had was the thing about her van. Thursday night she came to bed – didn’t say anything, but came and got into bed. Just as I was drifting off, she came up behind me and put her hand on my side. Then Friday morning she got up and acted like everything was fine and nothing had ever happened at all. She’s taking care of her own dogs, being nice to the girls, and just acting like everything is fine.
On Saturday morning I talked to the friend she was planning on staying with and she asked me what happened. I told her that I didn’t have a clue. W just started acting like nothing had ever happened. She said that she had talked to W and told her that she needed to take a real hard look at the sitch and make sure she wasn’t doing something she would regret. W told her that “things had been better lately” and nothing more. We just kind of gave each other a who-knows shrug and went on.
So does somebody want to explain to me what just happened? I would ask if I should have made her leave, but I already know what you would tell me.