Bube: I just wanted to chime in here and let you know that I'm behind you as well. I think Lil's point is very valid, too. Just because you tell your wife not to let the door hit her in the butt on the way out, doesn't mean that the marriage is over.
It's kind of like when my co-workers and I buy lottery tickets (only when the Powerball gets over $150 million. They all say, "first thing I am going to do when I win is quit my job." I tell them, "I'm not going to quit. But I will come in with an ENTIRELY different attitude."
So, it's time for a change in attitude. At the risk of getting slapped on the wrist by the women here, you might want to give the Rolling Stones' tune "Under My Thumb" a listen. Yes, it's misogynistic, but it might help with the attitude adjustment.
