Ok, so how does this apply to me? Are you saying that because I want to work on it and she "doesn't" (I put that in quotes becuase either the doesn't want to, or doesn't feel she needs to) that it is HER problem? I know that's not what you are saying, but...
To add a bit to this, my W and I have never really been able to talk about sex. I have tried, and she is always really bashful about it. When I say I talked to her about it, I mean just really trying to find different things she liked, etc. Always respectful, but sometimes playful if warrented. She just never really wanted to talk about it. NOW, in the bedroom was a different story. She was never bashful about what she wanted or needed DURING the act, it was just outside the bedroom she was. So maybe I just need to initiate ML and then start the conversation...
Anyway, again, thank you for this. I really consider my understanding of the little I do about my REAL situation a blessing and you led me to it. I was there, I just didn't really know it I guess.
