OT, I am also thinking of this whole process of moving beyond the crisis towards rebuilding a M as a long, slow walk through a minefield, where at any point I could step on a live one.
Well, I think this topic of intimacy is one of the BIG live ones and possibly the key to most of what went wrong in our M. The more I think about it, the more I can tie a lot of our problems to this. I guess to continue with the analogy I made, I have my foot on the mine and don't want to step off until I have some plan on how not to have it blow me to bits...lol.
