Beyond the trip...back to reality...Part 7

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That's what I thought. I have the same problem, in that I've almost never let my W give me a backrub or do anything for me other than kissing and $ex.

Your W has indicated to you that she wants more non-sexual intimacy, so let her give it to you and see what happens.

I'm going to do the same thing. Last Wednesday night, I spent the evening taking care of her, but I really didn't ask for her to do anything back -- a mistake, I think.