OK, GH, I've got another idea for you. Something that my W just absolutely loves is the tingler. This thing is relaxing and tickling at the same time. It's not sexual, but it is intimate. It's a good goosebump feeling, really. My W will let me sit and do this to her for hours, and I absolutely made sure that I took it with me when I stayed over with her last Wednesday night (and it was very much worth it). I know that it looks ridiculous, but trust me and order one.
The LORD is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth." (Psalm 145:18)