Thanks RB. Actually, I am doing all those things save the undies. The problem is that's how I ALWAYS do it. When I say there has been no kisses outside the bedroom, I mean on the mouth. Our ML always, and I MEAN always starts our with back rubbing, then moves to kissing on the neck, etc.
I just want to have a physical relationship with my W, especially when it comes to something OTHER than back rubs without it leading to $ex. I think she wants this too since she mentioned earlier on in the sitch that our entire intimate relationship was about $ex and she didn't like that. Again, I feel it is appropriate to just ask her what she is missing in our R, but not right now. I am either going to just DO, or accept for now. I am ok with taking things slow, but not so slowly that she forgets I'm here again!
Anyway, this is still all about what I want until we are back in a REAL marriage so I will do what I think is best and not dwell too much on her/her feelings. I will not trample on her feelings, but I cannot go around doing or not doing because I THINK she'll react or feel a certain way, now can I...
