Well, I guess if you let it happen...your family can and will suck the joy and life right out of you. My father called this morning to see if we had heard anything on the hosue that we put the offer in on. We have not. The only thing he really had to say was that he has to agree with the rest of the family that I am making a huge mistake. Huh? Well, when did this all happen? Why wasn't I invited to the "Let's bash SE's life choices" party?

It seems that my entire family is in agreement that if I move, I am going to be alone. My H isn't close enough to his family for their liking. It's not like I see any of my family. Most of them are the party family. You only see them on holidays, birthdays, weddings and funerals. My mother I never see because of the issues we have. My father I only see when he isn't on speaking terms with my mother. So, how am I losing anything?

I am very upset about all this. I think the most upsetting thing is that all H could do was complain about my family, or lack thereof. He knows I am deeply hurt and upset about this and he supports me by asking me what is wrong. I tell him that it makes me feel like I never have any support with my choices I make and it makes me wonder if I am really making a mistake. HE kisses me, walks out of the room...and that's that.

I don't think I have ever felt as alone as I do now.

~SE

I'm moving on...at last I can see...life has been patiently waiting for me.


Me-32
WAH-35
DD-11
DS-4
H left 11-03
Piecing- 12/04
WAH again- 03/07
Married 12 years
Divorce final May 15, 2007