Pass the Dramamine...still on the roller coaster!

[StrongEnough]

Always and C4H- Thanks for your advice and for locking my thread!!!!!!!

Always- The list of things to get done. We have tons of them laying around. I make lists, H makes lists......he knows what has to be done but just dosn't do it. You hit on something that I have been wondering about. The whole "independence" issue. On top of his low self-esteem, not feeling needed, my independance, etc. I have been wondering if he is rethinking this move because it means more financial independance for us. He was the one who insisted I quit my at home work. I know and knew that was a way to put me totally dependant on him for something. When we move, the financial dependance part is gone as well. To make it worse, we have discussed that fact. So, he and I are well aware of it. I wonder if that could be why he is dragging his heels about getting this house on the market.

C4H- Your story about your S crying breaks my heart. I can relate to it so much. Being on the other end, it's a terrible situation for our kids to be in and it just breaks my heart to think of how kids are affected by this kind of behavior.

Sorry about not responding last night to the two of you. I went to bed really early. I was emotionally and physically exhausted. I don't know where I stand today with H, never alled him again last night and was sleeping before he got home. Wish me luck today!!

~SE