"If I am feeling healthy, happy and in love with you, I will want to have sex with you on a regular basis. Which of these factors would you prefer that I minimize in order to limit my sexual feelings?".
Echoing Hairdog, I think this is an excellent reply too! I’m wondering if it could be made even more powerful by combining it with Schanrch’s observation that the rejection from our spouse is phrased to make us vulnerable rather than him/her, kwim?
Any thoughts on a concise, to the point message with these two thoughts?
