I don't mean this as an insult to you, you have wonderful input...so I really hope you don't take it that way....but sometimes you exhaust me.
I wasn't actually referring to his online activities....I was more referring to his avoidance of me (his online activities were a tool for doing that)...and being happy with the fact that what he was doing was enabling him to not have to truly get close to me and therefore keep me at a distance...to stay at a safe distance for him....to stay in his comfort zone and have the M just the way he wanted it....or perceived it should be.
Just wanted to edit this to add....I don't mean what I said at the beginning of this in a bad way at all...I'm in a mood today and want to make sure it doesn't come off that way LOL. I definitely value your input, you just seem to over analyze my sitch....more than I do LOL.
