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P.S. Sooner, sorry for the hijack. But your sitch sounds so much like mine (wife used to be affectionate and very HD, husband is a "nice guy", wife refuses counseling, etc.) that I thought it was on-topic. -- Choc.

No problem here with the hijack Choc. (and everyone else). It's turned into an interesting discussion to say the least.

Sooner

(repeating to myself "I'm a stud. I'm a stud. I'm a stud..." )