HappyGiant, the more you do of the heavy lifting, the less your W has to do.

Then she removes just the essentially clothing and and says "ok, let's go. Stop trying to make it all extended and dramatic. Just get it done"
This is total BS on her part! So how often do you do it with her? Like twice as much as you would normally do it or much less than you would like to do it? BTDT to a lesser extent myself.


I don't know your story very well but this would be a MC or a he!!-to-pay situation for me.

the fact that my wife is in no way, anywhere... ticklish.
Respect her likes or dislikes in this area.

Sorry, but reading your posts has all kinds of warning signs that you are in for a long tough task.

I know... I need to stay positive, unflinching.. happy, and enjoy the world.
True but you also need to step back and see where your W needs to do some work on her attitueds and actions reguarding your sex life.

Has she described her version and range of a SL.

Wosses and my-way-or-the-highway type guys don't make it, neither do servants make it. Your W has to do some work and invest in the R or you (me) get to the point think the R is too one-sided and you give up and start thinking out-the-door thoughts.

Lou