Quote: I hate that. It creeps me out. I feel like a terrible person when that happens and it is soooooo not what I am looking for while trying to re-establish an EC. It is far easier to go without and keep some peace than to try to initiate and feel like a creep.
A LOT of us celibate and semi-celibate HDs feel this way. Whether those words are actually spoken by our spouse, our shouted in so many non-verbal ways from the rooftops of her psyche, it simply makes you feel awful.
