Hi everyone. It's been over two years since I've posted here, but unfortunately my absence from the DB board had nothing to do with a sudden upturn in my sex life. Two years later, the situation in my marriage hasn't changed one bit. I took a break from the board due to the fact that constantly posting and reading posts from everyone else made it impossible for me to stop thinking about what I could do to "fix" my sexless marriage, which in turn resulted in frequent "sex arguments" with my wife. However, while I've gotten a lot better at not getting into fights with my wife over the past couple of years, I've become increasingly apathetic about the whole situation. I guess I've proved to myself that just hoping things will get better while doing nothing won't improve my situation one bit. I'm ready to become a bit more proactive, but I don't really know where to start.
My previous threads are hard to find since they're so old, but here are the links for anyone that has a few hours to kill.
In case anyone is wondering about my subject line, I'm out of town working for a couple of days and tonight I went out for a wonderful dinner which included three beers - two Harpoon I.P.A.s and a Guinness. The slight buzz from the beer was my motivation to get on here and start typing, but at the moment I don't have any specific questions to ask or any stories to tell. I just started this post so I'll have somewhere to go when I feel like getting into the details. I know, that probably doesn't make much sense, but at the moment I'm not too worried about it.
