Quote: I think I misstated what I meant by LD. I do not think my H is biologically LD from lack of T or anything like that. I think it is what you were saying - sexual repression, inhibition, fear of vulnerability
I don't know your whole story, so bear with me on this post. Have you accepted the fact that if your H has normal testosterone levels and is not having sex with you, he is almost certainly MBing on a regular basis? How did/does this make you feel? I will suggest that you won't make progress until you accept this reality and then get past it.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
