Good post GEL. I think I misstated what I meant by LD. I do not think my H is biologically LD from lack of T or anything like that. I think it is what you were saying - sexual repression, inhibition, fear of vulnerability. But look, after 10+ years of M, I would hope that we could get to a point of being comfortable enough with each other to deal with this sh!t. Especially after the seperation. And if there is one thing H and I are good at doing, it's talking this issue til the cows come home. He has admitted to me that in every R he has had with a woman/girl, he has been this way. I was certainly not his first. But he admits to always feeling inhibited in this area. So, the history/pattern of behavior was there way before me.
