I think you missed the point of Honeypots post......
("You may have to adjust what your definition of fireworks is, to include things that you can do right now.....")
Honestly....this is something I have had to do too. As I call it....expand my definition. I did this prior to what I found out about my H FWIW. I found expanding my definition of what an R should be or what "romance" should be...helped us both have a better chance at success.
