The yearning for H has chilled a little, now that we have created our own mini-fireworks version (in bed at night with the kids asleep, but hothothot).
HP, that is great for you. But for people like myself (and if I can speak for Chrome here) is that the fireworks just aren't happening. Kids or no kids. 1 month, 1 year, 10 years into the R. So it is hard to just say, wait until the kids are older. My real fear is that when the kids are older, we really won't have enough "fireworks" to hold us together.