Careful Chrome!
You and I have been through similar situations.. and one of the things that my wife said when going through things is that she felt she was losing an understanding of who I really was. What she really WANTED is for me to be able to open up myself to her about all the kinds of stuff you mentioned in your last post. She wanted to know that "inner me" in order to feel close again. Don't assume that just becasue your wife is overwhelmed that she is not interested. She just may be and is waiting for you to express that to her.

(Disclaimer: Keep in mind, I do not know your wife and will not be held responsible if you follow my advice and it results in disaster)

Sheesh, can you tell I have been working in "Legaleese" all day...



Allow her to be that friend that you can go to, trust me, it can be tough, but she is the person that needs to hear that. My wife and I have our ongoing sexual debate and problems, but I still love that fact that we can talk about anything (except for sex) and I am working on sharing more.