Quote: It's funny because in one breath he expresses concern that I will find someone "better" and leave him ... Of course I don't express that irritation or frustration -- it's just something I sit on.
Hmmm. Not a good combination in my book.
How about something like: SO - "{Something about insecurity}" M, wearing her armor - "SO, you said something like that last night/before/on Thursday/whenever. Is there something I say or do that brings that to your mind?" (Or you can ask right out, "that brings out that feeling in you.")
As you listen, you might find some more understanding/compassion for his insecurity, whatever it is. You might also get a clue how to express that hearing about the insecurity without having a chance to help him doesn't sit well with you.
Or something like that.
Happy Mother's Day!
Joe
My sitch More importantly, Light A Million Candles
