I am happy to report that things are on a good high right now. I stepped it up a bit. Working on the diet, but of course we all know how hard that is! Had my 40th b-day over the weekend and he threw me a surprise party at a restaurant. Very nice! I have noticed with my improved behavior he has been much more attentive as of late. Runs fingers through my hair and on my face in the morning and cuddles up to me in bed-something that had lapsed that I truly missed. I also re-started my meds to see if they really make a difference or not. 1/2 dose as I was on before I weaned off them. I still attend my support group meetings on a fairly regular basis each week. (And I ALWAYS promote this site!!)

How's everyone else doing?


Me 43 H 44 S-13 D-9
Separated 90 days 6/28/05
H Says he is done-10/2/06-day after 18th anniv
Moved out 10/2/07-to father's house-day after 19th wedding anniv-GF now
H Filed for D 7/08