Your daughter is a non issue but the fact that she is probably repeating the things you say is a problem.
You need to keep working on you, and stop worrying about your husband and what he is doing or saying.
You still seem very insecure about things and you can not count on your husband to fill each of your needs. It puts too much pressure on him and you will find yourself back in the same place you came out of.
Do some things for yourself. Maybe join a gym or something. You said you gained back some of the weight you lost, do something for you.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.