Quote: My daughter repeated to my H something she said to me about what if I married the neighbor. He laughed. I commented that Daddy wouldn't care and he said nice bust.
I can't believe you said this to your D. Keep the children out of this, shame on you! That would have been bad enough to just say to your H but you took it even further. Get Divorce for Dummies and look up the chapter on dealing with children.
Get back on your Meds or talk to your Dr don't self medicate (did you go to med school?). Do you have depression or something? How do you expect your H to love you when you don't love yourself?
Sorry for the harsh words but I feel really strong about this.
