I was looking at your old posts because we have similar names. I was encouraged by your progress and wondering how you were doing. My H came back (rushed is more like it) after 6 weeks of being seperated. After 3 days I knew he was on his way out the door again (and sure enough after 2 weeks he left).

I have no insite only to say that I think that saying ,if he leaves again thats it, is a mistake. These people are going through something that I don't understand and don't enjoy being effected by. But there are people here that have gotten through it. And so can we!

I think it is unwise to make him choose between his sister and you.

Don't take everything so personal, don't base your feelings off of his reaction to you. Be in control of your own emotions. We can both do this! Stay strong!

Sweet_Heart Be the change you want to see.