My h and I spoke today, we have been separated for 7 months, and it left me anxious, tense and sad. I know that we have a long ways to go but I wonder if it is worth it anymore.What is it like to keep working on your marriage? Is it as excrutiating as it feels to me? I have been married for almost 20 years and I really need to see my side of the pain. Of course his is easy with infidelity but when I look at how much I let him impact how I feel instead of just discusing something like sharing info, I can't seem to do it. I didn't say anything wrong today I just felt horrible when I got off the phone. I don't feel heard or cared for in this relationship and we have tried so many things. We have 2 kids and that is the only reason I even consider moving forward. Any thoughts? Thanks
