Just doing posting here on Barney's thread. I'll guess I'll say similar on mine. I wish Barney would post....come on Barn...say a few words!

Barney and Nicegal have worked through issues and are gettin'together!

At Barney's suggestion and my agreement we have scheduled sex. With our lifestyle at this point, it is necessary. We are both happy with this arrangement.

ON Thursday morning we have a quickie...well, I was up from 2-5 a.m. (tonight too...this happens once every 2 or 3 months for about 2 or 3 nights..I don't fight it...I'll take my melatonin tomorrow before I got to bed though). Anyway, then one of our kids couldn't sleep and I was up with him for an hour...he kept begging to go in our bed...after an hour I gave in.

Barney was understanding of it. He saw my effort and knows our kids sometimes.

Well..what I did differently right away after we both laughed about what happened..I told him to drop the kids off at school and come back for a quickie...so we did!

Really puts a spring in your step for the day!

I know that this action shows him I love him, I want him, and I want a great R with him. I know that doing this sort of thing even when it is tough to fulfill will demonstrate my change of heart.

I know people mostly tell about the challenges here. It is just easy for me not to post good stuff that might encourage someone else. But, ha ha I'm up anyway at 4:30 a.m.! Although, I'm going back to sleep now for another 2 hours!

I know that this is only 2 weeks. But, I'll keep posting, maybe ole' Barn will add a few comments..to let you know how we are doing.

Nicegal