The problem in the desire follows arrousal is that one person in the marraige in effect must provide ALL the desire. Its not the sex that is important, it is the DESIRE that is important. How do you show desire, be openly horny, WITHOUT HELP from the man. What I don't understand is you LD women lose your desire for your man, and then expect that your man should be OK with this? What person actually WANTS to be married to someone that does not desire them?
