I think I somewhat understood what you were saying. The morning wood was a example you gave so I went with. It is easy to be open about examples about one self but hard to not cross the line so I was just going with what was offered.
If she asked me if I wanted a BJ (or "goodnight kiss") that wouldn't do much for me. But if she said, she had been wanting to give me one, it would. If she said that she wanted me to "kiss her goodnight" or ride me into the sunset, that would do it, too, rather than asking if I wanted to.
I think this is close to what I just was referring to as being more Braizen. And how the difference of simple wordage and sentence structure in the hypo conversations with my H. In one he was stating a strong need for the other a timid well if. One I would find hot the other not so much. Both might end up in sex but only one would end up in a building of sexual tension You want a more stronger indication from NG that not only is she willing to have sex but she wants to have sex. A more domineering approach of speaking and showing her own sexual desire. The question is does NG embrace her own sexuality or desire these things enough to feel comfortable saying/doing something like
I am wet and would really like for you to be inside of me right now. Or to simply take your hand show you she is wet then tell you that you need to drop your drawers.
I think this is a issue both GEL and HP and LFL and Karen and in a odd way even CeMar have dealt with or are dealing with so this is not a uncommon issue.
They want to feel desired instead of being the one to bring on the heat. They want it to be a need in there spouse not just a response.
