Quote: I have seen a lot of people speak of wanting to know there spouses to desire them. And often wonder if that lack of urgency and show of immediate uncontrollable soul defining need is what they are longing to see in there spouse.
Nicely stated Chrissy. There is something about having to ask for a hug, kiss, S, whatever, that although the OP is doing it because they love us and know that is what we would like, there is no meaning behind it. I don't want to have to ask. I want that OP to want that with me. Perhaps this is a porblem of incompatibility.
Just my two cents. Nicky
"There are two types of people -- those who come into a room and say, 'Well, here I am,' and those who come in and say, 'Ah, there you are.'"
Frederick Collins