Hiya, Barn. First of all, my condolences on the passing of Don Knotts. What a tremendous physical comedian, and what a great show!

To your question, I know what it is for me, but I could never answer my wife that question either. But it's the look in her eyes, and it's the way she kisses me.

Neither of those two things can be faked, and they are the two things I miss the most. More than the sex, more than her telling me some "words of affirmation" because she knows I need to hear them.

Hope that helps,

Choc.

"I can't definite "pornography," but I know what it is when I see it." (Potter Stewart)