I beg to differ on the oral sex and religion. There are actually 2 references to a woman performing oral sex on a man and at least one on a man performing oral sex on a woman. One in the song of soloman goes like this "She shall come into his orchard and she shall drink the sweetness of his fruits. This is a LOVE poem and it is NOT talking about a real orchard. God never intends for sex to be DIRTY, it is HIS creation and gift to man and wife. He does take a very NEGATIVE view on sex OUTSIDE this union, but inside this union, there are virtually no restrictions.
As for the penis being unhealthy, I know some people think this, but urine for example, is very sterile, so I am not sure why the penis is considered dirty.
Oh, I too am very religious, practicing Lutheran for 46 years, but I do wonder at why you are so turned off to sex because of religion? Heck, celibacy is something that is NOT to be done in most cases according to the Bible. The Bible WANTS man and wife to have sex to build a stronger union and to remove temptation.
