Happy St Patricks day to you to! I am Irish and German. More Irish then German since it comes from both sides of my family. D19 dad is 100% Irish even though he was born in England both of his parents were born and raised in Ireland. So she is Irish with a dash of German as we put it around here.
Hoping your son a speedy recovery on the tongue what a place to be hurt yuck. Poor baby. Made me remember once when my S15 fell and that thing under your tongue started pouring blood I was off to rush him to the hospital only to find there was nothing they could do about it.
Of course that was back in the day when I rushed them to the hospital over everything. Now after so many years of it. I am like ahhh well here is a bandaid. Broken bones and need for stitches are about the only thing that makes me run for the doctor immediately these days.
This morning I asked him to go to MC with me at my next appt. He said we would talk about it later, but he says he sees no reason why he wouldn’t go with me. That is a good step
Thats a great step! He is putting for a effort to fix things and not push them under the rug. If nothing else it acknowledges the fact he knows there is a problem. And has a want to make it better.
What does your H do to show you he loves you? Why does that make you feel insecure?
Hmmm that is a hard one to define.
He is protective of me. But to the point it becomes obsessive and stifles me and scares me. He is very loving towards me but sometimes his words and the way he projects that I am his world seem obsessive and over the top and it scares me. His jealousy yeah it is so over board that it scares the hell out of me at times and stifles me. My H is very possesive and obsessive to the point it is not loving and makes me pull away from him. It has done alot of damage to our relationship. And that is were I am at the crossroads of right now. Trying to decide if even if the behavior is modified at this point is the 16 years of damage it has caused fixable. Will I ever feel safe from him not in a physical sense but a emotional sense.
Yes, I guess it’s something that I do need, more that I realized. I kept thinking it was just sex, but it really is something that has nothing to do with sex.
I think this is the case for alot of us here. A continual need for security in our and our spouses EC. Gel is the perfect example right now. Even though she is not being sexed every night. She is having her emotional needs met in other ways and she is feeling content. I on the other hand can be having my sexual needs met and stil cannot find contentment because my emotional needs are still not being met. Sad circle. But good that some can get it right lol! The NOP's are also a great example of finding a way to get it right.
Oh, don’t get me wrong. I am not materialistic at ALL
Was not meaning to imply that you were. I was more pointing to the fact that even though Gifts is not one of my LL this little thing does mean alot to me. The power of knowing that one is thinking about you at odd times like mowing the grass or playing on the trampoline or what ever.
We have so MANY flowers in our yard from April to October,
There is something we have in common. I have about 6-10 flower gardens and also a hill side that I have flowers planted all over. My love of flowers comes from my mom I think. It is something that reminds me of her since I don't get to see her often. (But I still hate weeding them as much as I did as a kid lol).
Hope you have a good weekend! And hope the little one does also even with that sore mouth
