I just read your post and of course have a question for you.
Even though the frequency of S has picked up a bit, I can’t help but feel that emptiness still. That EC that GEL says is still there for her and her H even when they don’t ML, is NOT there for us.
Really think is that EC there from both sides when you have sex? Or is it just durring sex that you PT LL is being meet so you feel some form of EC at the time.
Just wondering because like you the EC is not there in my R. But for me it is not there durring sex either. The sex just fufills my biological needs not my emotional needs. Now for my H it is different he does get some form of EC and warm and fuzzy feelings towards me from sex.
I can not say I truely understand this but it is how it works in my household.
