Hi Nicky, I am wondering what the other guys think about this. In the past when my H has objected to me coming on strong it has been because he wants to be the “aggressor”, he does not want me to take the lead he does not see it as “manly” to let the woman do that.
It is hard to tell what the exact dynamic of the situation was, I think maybe GEL’s approach of just TOTAL SURPRISE was more effective than introducing it in a situation where there was already some lead up going on. Maybe he took it as a rejection? Maybe thinking that what seemed to him like a warm up session to some serious LM was being short-circuited to a quick BJ? Just my tuppence worth.
Fran
if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs Erica Jong
