I also say no to the idea of telling H how many other guys would kill to have that offer. Trust me, BTDT. Doesn't work. Only would make the man feel worse. Learn from others mistakes. Sorry I can't help with the rest of it, the porn issue. There's another place where I say, wish my H was "normal" and look at porn like most guys but maybe I should count my blessings he doesn't. And it's not that he won't look for any sort of religious reasons or even sexual inhibition reasons. I think he is just to PC for it. Buys into the whole degrading to women/feminist angle. Maybe I should hook him up with Hairdog's W, they would get along splendidly
